How You Are Killing Your Text Game

"What would you like to do"

We want to lead and take initiative. Figure out a time, place and what she is going to wear (you may give options but just let it open to anything!). We want to be leading. Women like leaders/decisive men. There are exceptions.

"What are you up to today? What's up? Hey! Hey!"

BORING!!! Do something different. Send a picture of something that you are up to. Something that is interesting. Don't try to just use chit chat. No one wants to talk about the same stuff that everyone else asks about. What school did you go to? Where do you work? This is all boring stuff that you can talk about in person. Use texting as a way to setup a date!

Compliments.

Dear lord no compliments over text. They get positive reinforcement but what they don’t know is if there is a hidden thing that slicing the attraction for you. It screams needy, nice guy, I'm too interested in you and women don’t want that. In reality they want to chase. Other guys give compliments all the time. They don’t need it from you. It doesn’t mean anything. Why do you want to do this? You just wanna do something nice for her? She doesn’t need that compliment. Its weakest form of trying to get a girl to like you. Have her chase those compliments. She will enjoy that more! Not a classic guy doing the nice guy move

Don’t say hey I’ll let you know. Give me some time to think. Figure it out and get back to you.

There is no reason to do that. You’re not buying yourself time. If you don’t know where to take her... don't text her! There is no rush if she said she'll go out with you. Give a place and ask if it sounds good to her. "Does that work for you?" If you don’t have it figured out yet don’t text her. It’s not very efficient. Volume is the damn game! You need to have a lot of volume. Is it really going to be good if you say I’ll let you know? No! Give the time and date.

Don’t send a bunch of links to her.

The more you send the less important it is for them. Don’t get a habit of sending these. Instead send 1 or none. When someone sends one link, they are more likely to click and watch it. You know yourself! You won’t watch all of the videos if someone send you more than 1. Just be careful doing this.

Don’t text her too much and texting her like crazy it's not going to work.

Don’t text shark. Try to get her out on a date and if she is busy just back off and don’t text her anything. And then ask her out after some time again. If she isn’t replying MOVE ON.