Create Someone

Most people think that their villain is someone else.

"The villain is opposite of the hero"

People need to create their villain. Your villain is going to be a clone of you but what your villain is going to be the person who basically, without the requirement from motivation, no matter how he feels that day, no matter how stressed he is from work and regardless of what happens to him, your villain is going to be the guy who always does exactly what he wants to do.

He is going to be the guy who goes to the gym regardless of how he feels. You villain is going to be the guy who approaches every beautiful girl he ever sees and says "Hi I really think you're beautiful".  Your villain is going to the guy who asks for a raise at work. Your villain is going to be the guy who does everything he wants regardless of how he feels. Regardless if he's not motivated or not regardless if he's shy to talk to that girl or people are watching or his ankle hurts so he doesn't want to go to the gym…whatever or his boss is he thinks his boss is going to fire him your villain is that dude who does any anything he wants to do.

Write down your villain to make sure you become him. There is no limit to how long the list can be. Just remember to review your list everyday to remind yourself who you need to be.

What my villain would be:

1. Id wake up at 5 am everyday no matter what and start my day.
2. Id start a side business even though I have no idea where I would start with it. He would sit there and learn how to take action with it for an online business.
3. He’d read really important books and find time for it. Never watch tv ever and doesn’t waste time on pointless activities.
4. He doesn’t procrastinate on school.
5. Is aware all the time of what is being said to other people. Steps back and thinks before hitting send to avoid unnecessary confusion on both ends.
6. Stop beating yourself down over small things that you shouldn’t have. Stop the thoughts from ruining your day/nights. Distract yourself with work. Don’t just got to bed because it’s a time. Go to bed when you really need to.
7. Go to the gym no matter what happens.
8. He would remember that he was taught he could do everything. He has aspirations. He has big dreams.
9. Speaks it into existence. Think negatively you get negative results. Think positively and you get positive results.
10. Pain isn’t based on reality it’s based on a fantasy. Stop feeling for stuff that wasn’t real. The perfect person doesn’t exist. Become better but do not ask for perfection. It will kill partner and you.
11. Keeps using the fuel that god provides you.
12. Keep spinning situations around. I never have bad days it’s impossible.
13. Draw lines earlier than when you are thinking.
14. Take care of yourself without the need of others.
15. Be aggressive and make stuff happen. Don’t hesitate and capitalize instead. YOU need to make things happen. Nothing will change if nothing changes.
16. If you had to talk and but you couldn’t talk about movies, songs or anything you see on the internet. Talk about your own experiences things you’ve done and your true thoughts and opinions which you have built on the back of personal experiences and amazing stories and things you have done. You are going to run out of things to talk about because you haven’t done shit. You ain't done anything. When is the last time you said something insightful. When’s the last time you talked and the person said whoa I never thought about it that way.
17. Eat meals! It’s as simple as that. Eating one meal isn’t going to help me grow.
18. Builds a routine but only for positive aspects. Gym, food, business, family.
19. Changes the plans but not the goal. Not afraid to test new waters.
20. Hydrate. Keeps the brain fog away and acknowledges when a session isn’t being productive anymore.
21. You have to be willing to fail. Willing to crash and burn. If you are afraid of losing then you will never be winning.
22. Books won't give it all to you you need get experiences.
23. My default mode is aggressive. 8/10 times it’s not the right move to just sit there and let shit happen to you.
24. Moves like water.
25. Realizes that social media is the plague.